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thanks for appreciating my humanoid looking lsp, here is more self-indulgent stuff because you guessed! iâm still not over it!
âTreat You Betterâ by Shawn Mendes is such a sheith song
Can you talk more about Elle Woods being autistic in Legally Blonde? :)
Elle strictly follows the traditional rules of femininity as dictated by southern californian culture, with special interests in the color pink, fashion, and her parter. She is extremely trusting and takes people literally when they are kind to her which is OK when she âstays in her placeâ as gender norms dictate, but as she leaves her familiar habitus in which she has cultivated social, cultural, and symbolic capital through careful study and adherence to these social norms, she finds herself ostracized and abused. Even though she is hyperlexic and has a high IQ (as traditionally defined), she has difficulty reading social cues in new environments. She also copes with transitioning into new circumstances by falling back onto familiar routines of personal hygiene and filling her personal space with familiar items. She is also extremely ethical to her personal morals which gets her into difficulty when social norms dictate being flexible with oneâs ethics. She also does not privilege human companionship over other species.Â
damnâŚ. I should write an article on this. This was fun. Mostly because Iâm the Elle Woods flavor of Autistic in many ways.Â
Elle Woods is the kind of Autistic that most neurotypicals canât recognize because she is camouflaged in âsocially acceptableâ practices, but to someone who is also Autistic is clear that the way she approaches these practices is neuroatypical. Many Autistic women survive and âblend inâ by making traditional feminine norms their special interests, and their neuroatypicality can often become disabling only when they change habitus, which means the circle of people and environment and all the culture and practices that go with it. They spend a lifetime getting âgoodâ at one habitus and fitting in, but suddenly stand out as âdifferentâ when their habitus changes. Autistic women are also often extremely trusting, and when they are âattractiveâ by traditional feminine norms they donât question when people are kind to them. They assume people mean well unless they say otherwise, making them highly susceptible to abuse and bullying, often by fellow women. Many Autistic women have above average IQs (by traditional definitions) and apply these abilities to traditional feminine practices such as fashion, art, homemaking, pop culture, etc. So they donât fit the stereotypes of the âabsent minded professorâ which is extremely gendered male and white. As many Autistic people often feel that other people, often partners, are their special interests, some Autistic women are camouflaged by their focus and dedication to a boyfriend or husband, because gender norms literally normalize this as an acceptable, desirable practice. Practicing their ethics with strict black and white rules, they can appear to be extremely âpious,â religious, and âdedicatedâ wives and mothers, which again is normed by gender practices and camouflaged. If they experience OCD qualities, these are often practiced in homemaking-related skills like cooking, cleaning, and personal hygiene, again⌠all camouflaged by gender norms as simple being a âgood girlâ and a âgood wife and mother.âÂ
100% here for hyper feminine autistic characters because we donât get enough of those.
SO HERE FOR THIS
Well huh.
welplookslikethisblogisdeadtoo:
Naruto: In loving memory of Gaara
Naruto: Oh, heâs not dead or anything I just love remembering him
hot take: jake peralta is bi and john mulaney plays his ex boyfriend from high school in season six of brooklyn nine-nine
john mulaney plays a rockinâ twink
John Mulaney:Â *to himself*Â What would Leonard Bernstein do?
Captain Holt: *to Jake, quietly* I support your and Amyâs relationship with my whole heart but why on earth would you give up a man like that
I
used to think the idea of aliens having human zoos was horrifying but
honestly if a bunch of aliens want to watch me sit and watch Netflix all
day in a cozy little environment where I donât have to pay for rent or
food and they have human-specialist doctors on hand as needed, IDK,
like. Iâd be all right with it.
I work at a coffee shop and have gotten all my co-workers to start calling lattes âhot milkyboisâ
I also got everyone to refer to the salted caramel blended drink as âthe big saltyâ and I consider it one of my greatest accomplishments
Oh yeah and any time someone orders a hazelnut latte with almond milk (which specifically is a weirdly popular drink) I say âone HOT NUT latte coming right up!â
My coworkers have not latched on to this one like they did with the others for some reason.
I forgot to mention I also pronounce âhot chocolateâ like âhot cocklateâ⌠because Iâm awful.
please give us updates
Our largest drink size is affectionately referred to as âTexas Sizeâ so sometimes when I hand it out in the drive-thru I like to say, âHereâs that TEXAS SIZE [drink] for ya, YEEEEHAW!â
And some people look at me as though I have just made their entire day while others look like they they could not possibly get away from me soon enough. Both reactions are equally satisfying.Â
I made this into a game except when I hand out the Texas-size drinks I say âCan I get a YEEHAW?â And the guests always look mortified but occasionally one of them will let out a terrified âyeehawâ and all my coworkers cheer and then we keep a running tally of how many yeehaws we each get on the back of a pastry bag.
op will not die of natural causes
If you think that transmen are âfujoshis who pretend to be guys to live their fetishesâ or any transphobic shit then you can
đˇFuck offđˇ
If you think that transwomen are ârapist who pretend to be female to prey on themâ or any transphobic shit then you can
đˇFuck offđˇ
If you think that enbies are âspecial little snowflakesâ or âdonât existâ then you can
đˇFuck offđˇ
If you think that pansexuals and bisexuals are âfakingâ or âshould pick a sideâ or âdonât existâ then you can
đˇFuck offđˇ
If you think that aromantics and asexuals or any of the aro/ace spectrum donât belong to the LGBTQIA+, then you can
đˇFuck offđˇ
Also if youâre transmedicalist, truscum, terf, radfem or any of these, you can
đšFuck the heck offđš
Youâre not welcomed here.











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