New link ive discovered between antis & stans- both adamantly believe that the thing they like MUST be ‘good’ or they are not good by extension & will go to great lengths to prove that or Only like whats considered ‘good’. They treat any disagreement or dissension like a Personal attack & are ok with abusing acceptable targets to reinforce their ‘rightness’. Its probably bc both groups are largely born of Conservative Christian-Inspired Purity Culture permeating Everything tho

fiction-is-not-reality:

For the readers: original definition of “stan” 

hoe-imaginess:

confession and dating hc for big threeeee

Mirio

•He’s pretty much attached to his crush at the hip whenever they’re around anyway so it’s probably not that big of a secret he’s at least fond of them. Maybe they don’t know the extent of his feelings though. He’s friendly to everyone, so it’s not always easy to tell

•He lets his feelings set for a while before he confesses. He doesn’t want to throw it on his crush randomly. It needs to be the right time

•His confession is also how he asks them out tbh. He’s open and honest about everything, probably jokingly points out that he hasn’t really done the best job of hiding his feelings, and that he hopes he hasn’t made them uncomfortable because of that

•Meeting his s/o’s parents and vice versa is a huge first step in the relationship. And of course no parents are going to disapprove of Mirio. He’s just too… perfect

•He’s not the type to go through relationships quickly, so he plans long-term. Hopefully that doesn’t shock his s/o. Whenever he talks about graduating and becoming a hero, he includes his s/o in all his plans. Where they’ll live, what pets they’ll have, etc

•He’s sometimes a little too open about his relationship with others lmao. He’ll be like, “Oh yeah. Sorry I’m late. _____ spent the night with me, so all last night and this morning we were having—” and whoever’s listening just tkjashdkjahsdkjhakjsd

Amajiki

•He picks a date to confess but then ends up delaying it a week and then another week and then another week and then another until oops another year has gone and his crush still doesn’t know about his feelings 

•The only way he finally gets around to it is if someone forces him to. Probably Mirio

•He keeps apologizing during the confession?? Poor dude

•When it actually goes well, Amajiki is completelyyyy shook. After that, there’s not exactly a point where they start dating, they just kind of do? Confessing to someone is a lot of work on its own, so asking them to go out with him is just a big no, he can’t do it

•His s/o is the one that needs to make dates and set plans, or else he doesn’t do it at all. It’s not that he doesn’t want to, but he just… won’t. He feels self-conscious about picking places to go because what if they’re boring? What if his s/o doesn’t have fun?

•Nervously protective of his s/o. He doesn’t want them to do anything that seems mildly dangerous in his mind. He’ll have to learn to stop being so paranoid about it

•People are always so surprised that he’s dating someone. Like ummmm? Tamaki Amajiki?? The one who’s too nervous to even look the lunch ladies in the eye? 

Hado

•Her feelings for someone are probably somewhat obvious because of how open and exuberant she is, but she doesn’t give them an actual confession until she’s in the mood honestly 

•It’s a pretty short confession too. She doesn’t feel like she has to say much. And not because she’s conceited or anything, but because she just wants to get it out there. If they say no, oh well! If they say yes, great!

•When they’re actually dating, she’s just as carefree and go with the flow. Occasional texting, no clingy attitudes on either end(as surprising as that sounds for Hado), cute social media updates 

•She makes lots of date plans. They’re not always cute or extravagant. Sometimes she just wants her s/o to come over to her place after school and study together, then watch movies when they’re done

•It’s just a very *cool* relationship. Everyone in school knows they’re dating. They’re one of those special couples. A “goals” couple, if you will

•When she throws parties or little get-togethers, her s/o has to be there, or else she fees like something is missing 

•She’s very supportive of her s/o in whatever they do, so their relationship is always full of encouragement and constant goal-making

naamahdarling:

This is actually A+ cat management.

“Mirroring” is a big thing with cats. It’s why they will lay in similar positions several feet apart, or will come and try to do things when you do them.
It’s a sign that they love you and want to show.

This cat wants to be close to its owner, and also wants to do what its owner is doing, to be involved in some way.

Giving them their own thing to use is a really great way to redirect them and allow them to mirror the behavior in a non-disruptive way that frustrates neither party.

This is a GOOD IDEA.